Liberal Arts

I found myself with an odd “nothing to do” evening yesterday.  As in, I’d already worked out that morning and wasn’t cooking dinner and was suddenly like, “wait, what do I do with myself?!”  So I decided to brave the whole “having to make a Netflix decision” thing and treat myself to a movie.  That was too many quotation marks for once paragraph, wasn’t it?

Anyways, after skipping over a few because “But Joey would like this!” I remembered that Joey watches movies and TV shows without me all the time (I’m still trying to figure out when he even does that!), channeled some independent thinking and chose one called Liberal Arts.  Because A) English major here, B) It was written, directed and starred by Josh Radnor (HIMYM for life!) and C) Because it was about someone who was passionate about reading and literature and thought college was the best.  Um hi, was this movie written just for me?

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Okay, quick obligatory synopsis, so you’re not lost during the rest of my movie rambling.  Jesse (Josh Radnor) is a 35-year-old admissions officer in New York but goes back to his alma mater in Ohio to speak at a former professor’s retirement ceremony and meets a sophomore student named Zibby (ugh, don’t even get me started on that name), played by Elizabeth Olsen, and ends up in a relationship with her.  Until he realizes she’s 19 and he’s 35 and that it’s weird when a 35-year-old is hanging out in the dorms and eating in the dining hall.

But the reason I loved the movie, was because I could relate to that whole loving college and feeling lost afterwards thing that Jesse is going through.  There was this scene where Jesse is explaining why he liked college so much and his answer is something like “This is the only time you get to to do this.  To read books all day and spend time discussing ideas.  In the real world, no one’s really doing that.”  And okay, maybe somewhere people are doing that in the real world, but not in my world and I miss it so much!  And also this part where Jesse is talking to his former professor and he tells him “Nobody feels like an adult.  It’s the world’s dirty secret.”  That made me thing “Oh my gosh, is that really true?  It’s not just me?”  So I guess, to make a long story even longer, the total shock of going from a liberal arts education to the real world just really spoke to me.  And it was nice to know I wasn’t the only one who felt it.

But even if you can’t relate, Josh Radnor is his usual charming self, Elizabeth Olsen is a delight and there’s this incredibly touching side story between Jesse and a struggling student named Dean.  Also, BEST CAMEO EVER by Zac Efron.  And if that’s the biggest take away you got from this post, they hey, I’m not mad at it.

Weekends Lately

So I’ve been meaning to talk to you all about my weekends as of late.  Here’s how things usually go.  Bright and early Monday morning, I am already starting a list of things I didn’t have the time to do last weekend and want to do this weekend.  Which means by the time Friday actually rolls around, I have a looooong list of things I “have to” get done.  Yes, in the time between Monday and Friday, I’ve switched from “want” to “need.”  Which means I’m already putting the pressure on myself and I’m already stressed out about all of those must-dos.  If this sounds like a good way to suck all the fun out of the weekend before it even starts, that’s because it is.

In addition, I have early onset adulthood — buying a house will do that to you — which means I want to stay in on Friday night, I want to wake up early on Saturday and I want to be home by 4 PM on Sunday so I can regroup for the work week.  Somehow, without my noticing (until it was too late), I went from wanting to hang out with friends on Friday night to wanting to stay in and go to bed early so I can feel rested for a day of getting stuff done around the house on Saturday.  I just rolled my eyes at myself for writing that sentence.  Am I too young to feel this way?  Help!  When did vacuuming become more enticing than lazing about and how worried should I be that I kind of don’t mind this new desire to be boring?

In an attempt to remedy both my severe case of overcomplicating disorder and early onset adulthood, I kept the to-do list as short as possible this week.  Grocery, laundry, go on a run.  No wedding planning, no house projects (ahem for me anyways… I can’t speak for Joey :P) and the go-ahead to sleep in, lounge on the couch, watch too much TV and eat too much of everything.  I’ll admit, it felt pretty nice, but I fear old habits will die hard and by next weekend I’ll be back to a long list of stuff to do (oh hi, I already have “see The Grand Budapest Hotel” and “brew beer” on there…) and wanting to be boring in the name of being able to get said to do list cleared.

Can any 20-somethings relate?