Things That Help

Listening to LOTS of Sia.

Donating to Planned Parenthood and ACLU.

Talking to my parents.

In no particular order: Anna Kendrick, Kate McKinnon and Lena Dunham.

Joe Biden memes.

I’ve been a little MIA from this space — and the online space, in general — because I’ve been struggling to work through thoughts and emotions that frankly, I don’t really know how to deal with.  Should I be sad or angry?  Am I supposed to have moved on or should I be harnessing these emotions to do something helpful?  And if so, what exactly is that something?  I don’t think there’s straight answers to any of these questions, so I’m just taking it moment by moment and doing what feels like the right path for me.

I keep finding myself in moments of happiness and feeling guilty.  Like I should be in mourning and have no right to feel any sense of peace, but what can we do?  Life must and will go on.  This weekend I got to see my best friends, meet their puppy, eat pancakes made by my husband, spend time with my family, prep for my favorite holiday, enjoy Harry Potter Weekend and just feel genuine joy.  I think we all deserve a little happiness right now.

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Avery puppy is ADORABLE and I kinda lost it over her dumpling chew toys.  Beer and pizza with Hannah and Josh at Echo Brewing, followed by many YouTube videos made for the perfect Friday night.

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Joey and I have been alternating pancake-making the past few Saturdays and it’s THE BEST.  It was his turn this weekend and there’s nothing better than going straight from bed to pancake breakfast.  

That baby pancake, though!

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We braved the grocery store for Thanksgiving groceries and managed to get in and out before it got too crazy in there.  I also went on a run then headed to my parents’ to see my sister.  May or may not have taken a family trip to Whole Foods once my parents came home from work.  Just a typical Dorsey outing, ya know?

Meanwhile, Joey was fixing our front door (don’t ask…) and LOOK!  He uncovered a transom window!  It’s so awesome and I’m so lucky to have a handy husband to fix up our 108 year old house.   

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I came home and fixed us up some homemade tomato soup and grilled cheese which had us both wondering… “WHY DON’T WE MAKE GRILLED CHEESE MORE OFTEN??”  It’s so dang good!

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Sunday started with breakfast at Black Eye Cap Hill and way too many cups of coffee — cut to me cleaning and chopping veggies for the next 4 hours — and ended with yoga, dinner, Shameless and the AMAs.  I’m just gonna announce my formal withdrawal from music award shows now.  

Wishing you all a Happy Thanksgiving Week!

Life Lately

Lately, I find myself seriously wishing there were more hours in the day.  I don’t know how to fit in all the parts of my life — the things I have to do as well as the things I want to do — while still giving all those parts the attention they deserve.  Actually, it’s more like work takes up a majority of the day and fitting workouts, dinner, post-work errands, couch/TV veg time, dinner and recreational reading into the 4 hours that are left over hardly seems doable.  Oh right, and let’s not forget blogging!

Unfortunately, that’s the part that’s been getting neglected lately.  So I thought it would be fun to catch up on some of the life happenings that haven’t made the blog lately.

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I found Joey biking in the gym and simultaneously eating a Cadbury Caramel Egg a couple weeks ago.

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I totally glazed over Joey’s actual birthday which was a full three weeks ago.  I made him these perfect pancakes for breakfast… Surprise!

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The birthday tradition is to go out for Mexican at Joey’s favorite restaurant.  I don’t know what happened but I was 2/3 through my house margarita when I decided I wouldn’t be able to drive us home if I finished it.  

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We painted the dog’s nails a few weeks ago.  Totally normal, right?  She’s just one of the girls.

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At yet another celebration of Joey’s birthday (does it ever end?!), Joey, his brother, his cousin and I headed to the restaurant early to make sure we’d have a table for 10, and enjoyed some beer samplers.  Also, I base my life’s success on whether or not I finish my beer before Joey.  That day, my life was a success.  

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I somehow got roped into another summer bowling league, so I’ve been begging Joey to take me bowling so I can practice and not embarrass myself in front of my team come May. I also managed to injure myself in the process… don’t ask.

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I love seeing this duck couple hanging out around my apartment complex.  They remind me of an old married couple.  Also, please note the crazy snow storm from last week in that third picture.

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I LOVE gumbo!  Especially when mom (or my uncle!) makes it for me.  I always wonder what people who’ve never seen or tasted okra would think of it.  It’s kind of an odd food, isn’t it?

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I got in a Twitter fight with Robert Irvine.  He was genuinely offended that I would point out his bad “Grammer.”  I’m genuinely offended, however, that he can’t take the time to spell things correctly in his tweets.  I guess we just don’t see eye to eye, Robert.

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Jenn and I went to Game 2 of the playoffs for the Nuggets on Tuesday night — I’m sure there was a way more technical way to word that if I had any real sports knowledge — and sadly we lost.  The game also continued on past my usual bed time but I didn’t even mind because I love Jenn 🙂

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I bought a new pair of Brooks this week and when I took them for a spin I had a really weird thigh cramp that I’m hoping was just a fluke.

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My sister, Hannah and I went to Happy Hour last night, where we feasted on an array of tapas.  And look!  Sushi!  We also ordered two deserts — one of which was essentially a giant Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup — and a side of ice cream.  I want to say that was totally unnecessary but at the time, it felt completely necessary.  Actually it still feels necessary!

It’s going to be in the 70’s this weekend and we’re planning our first trip to the Farmers’ Market, weeee!  Happy Friday!

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Tell me something that’s happened in your life lately?

What are your weekend plans?

Do you have a hard time fitting it all in?  And I’m totally talking about the components of your life, not dessert.