Recent Reads & My Book Wishlist

For as much as I love to read and consider it critical to my daily happiness, I sure am bad at blogging about what I’m reading.  I always have this feeling that what I’m reading isn’t “relevant” if it isn’t what everyone else is reading (i.e. Gone Girl, 50 Shades of Grey, The Girl on the Train).  No one has ever actually said that to me and it’s probably all in my head but come on, Wuthering Heights was published in 1847, so A) probably not on the Best Seller’s List and B) anything I have to say about it has probably already been said at some point in the past 168 years.  Whoa, that book is old!

Still, I have read some things that were written a little more recently, so I thought I’d share those along with my future reads wishlist.  Suggestions are always, always, always appreciated!

The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey

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If you read the synopsis on the back of this book your first thought will probably be “Sounds like that movie with Jennifer Garner where they grow their son in the back yard.”  Yeah, I’m talking about The Odd Life of Timothy Green (which I embarrassingly choked back tears during on a flight home from Jamaica…) and I wish I could say The Snow Child awoke those same emotions (except maybe not in public this time), but it didn’t.  In fact, I’d say the plot took a major turn away from the direction I thought it was taking and ended up being nothing like Timothy Green.

Maybe it’s all in my mind, but when I read something by a first time novelist, I always feel particularly aware of it.  That is to say, I feel like I can detect their uncertainty about their characters and where the plot is headed exactly.  While I thought Ivey painted a beautifully mysterious setting and there were definitely moments here and there that felt magical, overall I thought it lacked real depth and originality.  An unfortunate let down.

Brain on Fire: My Month of Madness by Susannah Cahalan

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I hardly ever read non-fiction but the plot of Brain of Fire sounded too Bell Jar-ish for me to pass up.  And in the beginning, it really does read like some Sylvia Plath mental breakdown diary.  Cahalan’s writing is straight forward but also poetic in a way.  The latter being even more impressive when I learned that she’s a reporter and probably more used to facts and figures than flowery prose.  There’s no better way to describe her writing than enjoyable.

About a quarter of the way into the book I realized her illness wasn’t self-fabricated or even a psychological condition.  You learn later on that she’s the victim of an autoimmune disease that has her body attacking itself, something that is both incredible and terrifying at the same time.  She does a good job explaining the whole thing in semi-Layman’s terms (though I’ll admit my eyes glossed over some of the medical jargon at times), being concise and subtly raising the issue of mental illness vs. autoimmune disease without turning the whole book into some kind of soapbox.

The whole book was incredibly eye-opening, fascinating (some of the things she explains about brain/body behavior is truly incredible) and thought provoking.  That thought mostly being “how many people have conditions that with more time/research/financial resources could be cured, but without, are cast off as mentally ill?”  I would highly recommend this book.

Hemingway’s Girl by Erika Robuck

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Currently reading!  I picked this up on a whim because please save me, I’m Hemingway obsessed.  So far, I like it okay but something about the fact that the two main characters refer to each other as “Papa” and “Daughter” when I am pretty sure they’re about to become romantically involved kind of creeps me out.  Also European Hemingway > Key West Hemingway.

Book Wishlist

We Were Liars by E. Lockhart.  I just joined a book club that’s reading this and I’m already feeling disillusioned because I had to pick it up out of the Young Adult section.

Bread & Wine by Shauna Niequist.  Trying my luck with another fiction piece but it’s about food so it should be right up my alley.

Alias Grace by Margaret Atwood.  Because I just remembered how much I love The Handmaid’s Tale. 

Weekend Things

I miss Adele.

But that has nothing to do with the weekend and everything to do with the fact that “Set Fire to the Rain” just shuffled up on my iPod.  In more on topic news, it finally stopped snowing last Wednesday and by Friday the sun was out, the temperature was warm(er), the girls in the office went out to lunch together for the first time ever and dang, it felt positively springy!  Which mean by 3 PM, I was planning a trip to the store for limes and blood oranges because we had tequila at home!

2 We hadn’t made margaritas in far too long and these hit.the.spot.  I just made a quick simple syrup by mixing equal parts boiling water and sugar, then used our standard margarita recipe — 2 oz. tequila, 1 oz. triple sec, 1.5 oz. simple syrup, juice of 1 lime — plus 2 oz. blood orange juice.  Is there anything prettier than blood oranges?!  Afterwards, we settled in with dinner, our margs and some Mad Men binging.  We just realized we still needed to watch the first half of the final season before the second half starts next month.

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This is Saturday.

But seriously, we spent the entire day on our kitchen backsplash and to say it was harder and took longer than we’d expected would be an understatement.  We thought we were prepared but turns out we needed a wet saw with glass tiling cutting abilities and by the time we figured that out and found one to rent it was 2 PM.  Oops!  The good news is we got the sink side tiled and most of the stove side done by Saturday night.  Joey is a trooper and did most of the stove side by himself while I reloaded us on groceries.  Also, I pretended the mastic was frosting and it made slathering it on the wall more fun.

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We called it quits around 7, then showered and rewarded ourselves with a date night.  We ended up at the Chef’s Table (or what I would call the Chef’s Counter) at Ace and had an amuse-bouche placed in front of us.  We were starving, so no argument here!  An order of potstickers, two bao buns, a side of kimchee and a giant bowl of beef red curry later, we felt much better.  Also, as we were driving home, I realized it was 9:30 PM and was like “who are these young people eating dinner out in Denver so late?”

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So we needed to get the backsplash finished on Sunday before our wet saw rental time was up, but first… breakfast!  We took my parents to Sassafras.  We’d only been once last year and had been dying to go back.  We had a short wait — where I could not seem to find an out of the way place to stand — but it was all worth it.   Because… hollandaise!  I got the Cajun Benedict and it was pretty phenomenal.  We definitely need to come to this place more often.

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Back at home, we finished the tiling and cleaned up the stuff on the sink side.  We still have to grout but we LOVE how it looks!!!  That tile matches our island so well and it looks so good with our new countertop and white sink.  Afterwards, we started feeling guilty about not taking advantage of the nice weather and went on a walk.  I’m trying not to get my hopes up about winter finally being over but it’s so hard!  Spring fever forever!

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My goal this week is to get into bed early and read every single night!

P.S. This time of year is all about finding the sunshine.

Happy Monday!